Friday, April 3, 2009

Afternoon Tea Session

We were invited by the NICU nurses to attend a afternoon tea session for all parents who have their babies in NICU to share with parents whom already been there done that.

We were honoured to have Doreen share with us her journey with Davien's 4 mth stay in NICU. Davien was so cute, he was born a 26 week-er at only abt 600g, he had all the problems and issues of an immature baby but his mummy persisted and took very very good care of him and now he is as normal as any other kids. I admire Doreen's persistence and courage and love for her son.

She shared with us how important it is to not give up and how hard it was for her to pick up the phone when the hospital called in the middle of the night, she actually dreaded those phonecalls and wanted to throw her phone into the toilet bowl. I can understand how she must have felt at that point in time. But Davien has been such a strong boy and he is doing his mummy proud. Although he is going for another ops in 2 weeks time, his mummy is confident that Davien will be ok.

I thought about it, Reyes did not have that much problems compared to Davien. Is he considered lucky? It suddenly occur to me that every single preemies there in NICU are fighters, fighting for their survival.

When I reached into the incubator yesterday to touch Reyes and talked to him, he opened his eyes almost immediately. His weight as of yesterday is 1185g, finally reached his birth weight. He looks pretty good too. I'm praying that his PDA will close soon so he dun have to go surgery for that. Praying...

4 comments:

  1. he will be soon discharged..and i will be there to share the joyous moment of his full month celebration!

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  2. Thank you dear! Yeah, I'm looking forward to welcoming him home too! :)

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  3. Hi Evonne & Melvin, Reyes is a strong boy! God's eye is upon him. We are praying with you.
    We know that God has a plan for him, a plan to prosper him and not to harm him. For we are more than conqueror in Christ Jesus! We are proud of you Evonne and Melvin, for your faith and your love for our precious Reyes. Be strong and courages, you will cross the Jordan and reach the promise land very soon. I'm very sure our Lord hear your prayer and He has already answered them. As Jesus has paid the price for us to give us peace, joy and eternal life. Rejoice! Let the peace of God which surpasses all understanding to lead and guide you. Lov, Lilian

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  4. Hi Lilian, Amen! God heard our prayers and answered them. Reyes has clear all obstacle and the only thing now is for him to grow big enough to be discharge. Thank you for your prayers.

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